HOW TO GET YOUR RESPECT BACK AFTER A GUY SLEPT WITH YOU

HOW TO GET YOUR RESPECT BACK AFTER A GUY SLEPT WITH YOU

Sex is sacred and a beautiful thing. When engaged in outside marriage becomes unholy.One of the consequences ladies pay for is the immature 30-year old boy rubbing it all over you to make you cheap and boost his own ego.
The following DIY will earn back your respect:
1. Stop having sex with him again.Forget the fore plays, too.
2. Stop initiating communications with him except when it is very important and urgent.
3.When you run into him somewhere, maybe in a crowd, look him straight in the eyes and be the first person to greet him with a firm handshake, not fleshful hugs.
If he had already told his friends about it, they will ask him," are you sure you slept with that babe?"
He will come back again to have another sex, then you can give him a piece of your mind.Make sure someone is hanging around to rescue you because he might rape you this time because of your big mouth.

If you have any other tips and comments, please share; you might help some ladies.

SUSTAINING PEAK PERFORMANCE

If your productivity is getting low, you need to watch your team's performance.Having the right working conditions, effective team, needed tools,among others can sustain peak performance. An often neglected tool for sustaining performance is communication.
By this I mean, communicating effectively your goals or the reasons for the tasks to be assigned to your team brings clarity to them.The clarity of purpose tremendously ushers in commitment to tasks.
Endeavor to let your subordinates know why they have to do what you want them to do.How you communicate to your team shows whether they are fired up for peak performance or burned out for leaky performance.
Do this always and it becomes your team's culture.

THE MURDER CONSPIRACY

The Murder Conspiracy

I couldn't' comprehend the bewilderment that surrounded the king's throne, and the envy and jealousy upon which the conspiracy to murder a fellow administrator was predicated. More so, the loose naivety of a king as old as 62 years to succumb and yield without a second thought to a perilous plot enshrouded and garnished with the beguilement of a decree which seemingly was presented perhaps to affirm and consolidate the sovereign authority of a king. What was the king thinking of?

Don't forget this is a conspiracy, and there is a victim who the king reckoned as an excellent, distinguished administrator. A little background about the potential victim will guide our thought line. His colleagues and contemporaries couldn't find any basis for charges against him for there was no corruption in him. Hence the plot was designed and drafted out of his strength- his undiluted obedience to the laws of his God.
If you are yet to figure out this story, you need to start reading, let alone begin studying the book of Daniel. I went beyond the stupidity and gullibility of the king, and retrospectively reconsidered the reasons behind every conspiracy past and recent. It shouldn't shock you that the canvas for most conspiracies is painted on the back of self interest. Yes, selfism. Selfism is an immemorial religion which still is today the religion of the end-time. " But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come. For men will be lovers of themselves..." Die-hard lovers of self. From assassinations to territorial dispute on the world's timeline; World War I to the child marriage provisions of the Nigerian constitution, self-seeking agendas outplayed their significant roles. Individuals are sold out to the responsibility of satisfying self alone at the expense of other people. Dr. Jack Hayford in his bible commentaries put it better, "People will be characterized by all kinds of self-centered and unnatural perversion. Some will maintain an outward pretense, speaking the vocabulary of christianity, but refusing the reality that Christian faith expresses."People with mutual self-interest having been fed with wrong or right perceptions and impressions of a person, people or a province, galvanize their energies to devise devious deeds- in conspiracy to murder identities, relationships, agendas and sovereignty. By accident or design, such persons connived with others.

Per adventure, they conspired  to murder your character, your personality, your marriage or vocation, and you are reading these texts, be grateful you still have life. How you stand in the midst of a storm is in the stillness your inner strength provides. There is a Victor Vantage View you should embrace. This mirrors the potency and the fierceness of the only living double-edged sword of the spirit- the word of God.Inner strength doesn't come from pulling weights and dumb bells; it comes from pulling your identity and discovering your purpose from God and His word. When adversity comes, or when men conspire to cast you down, you pull your weights from the word of God, the anchor to your soul. Let them conspire for the cast down. You just refire for the lifting up. They don't have the power to assassinate your identity because they didn't give you your identity in the first place. Remember, you are created in the very image of God. This, the conspirators do not know, but you know better. This identity will have to forgive them for they knew not what they have done to you. Forgiveness is of God; it frees you from the weight that comes with the pain.This is the inspiring identity you should exemplify and exude. It is working out for your good.

For the conspirators, you have to learn to number your days. There is still a room to reconcile your wicked ways. The mercies of God after it has been exhausted, judgement comes. But when repentance is not in your action plan, the wrath of God will visit you and your households. Isn't it wise to change from your wicked ways. You appear to be friendly but your heart brews evil. There is still time to change. God desires you repent; if not, YOU WILL EXPIRE before your time!